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THIS MAY BE ART's avatar

Wow! 🤯 I just bought your book because after reading that I was left breathless!

Can’t wait! Thank you!

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Dea Devidas's avatar

Ahh… thank you! So glad it landed in your cells like that 🌀✨ Can’t wait to hear what unfolds as you dive in. Breath by breath, it’s all there. 💛

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Elias Lumen's avatar

I'm a dude and read this from start to finish. Great stuff.

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Dea Devidas's avatar

Respect, brother, love that you stayed with it start to finish. Honored it resonated 🔥

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Elias Lumen's avatar

Being no stranger to tantric and sexual/spiritual energy, I recognize the same parallels but with different plumbing. All of it an antenna for love and spiritual energy. More women AND men need to get in touch with the spiritual side of sex.

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Dea Devidas's avatar

Yes, different wiring, same divine current. The body knows the language of spirit through every channel. Love how clearly you see that. Here’s to more of us remembering what sex really is: a communion, not just a function. 🌀🔥

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Elias Lumen's avatar

Yes! Communion with self, God and others. We’ve spent a number of centuries dirtying and distorting a beautiful, natural act. Happy there are people like you out here helping to change hearts and minds.

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Dea Devidas's avatar

Yes! Remembering the sacred in the simple, the divine in the embodied. Grateful to walk beside voices like yours in this great unlearning. 💫🕊️

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Jenny Roberts's avatar

The title for this article absolutely wins Best title I’ve seen so far! 🙌🔥🏆🔥🙌

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Dea Devidas's avatar

Had to let the wild truth strut right in through the title 🔥 Thanks for feeling the fire and giving it the crown 👑💃💥

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Jules's avatar

Couldn’t agree more, 😁

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Dea Devidas's avatar

Love when frequencies sync like that 😊🌀💬

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KC Reston's avatar

My relationship of ten years ended a little over two months ago (to the tune of police sirens, blood all over the apartment, sleeping at a friend's place and then leaving the state all within about two weeks (I'm fine)) and I have been having a rough time getting my shit together. I was really not doing well today and then I pulled this up and just sat on the floor reading it and crying. I don't think you understand just how badly I needed this. Thank you.

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Dea Devidas's avatar

Oh love… I feel the floor you were sitting on. Mine was two months ago too, 2 a.m., child in my arms, both of us crying, walking into the night with nothing but instinct. Slept on a friend’s couch, heart in shards, body still bleeding metaphorically and not. That kind of rupture carves deep, but it also clears space for something holy to grow. It’s not collapse: it’s initiation. A blood-soaked birth of the one who doesn’t ask for permission anymore. The one who walks through fire barefoot and comes out sovereign. I’m honored these words reached you in the ache, right when you needed a thread to hold onto. You're not alone in this. The breakdown isn’t the end, it’s the doorway. I’m walking it with you. And on the other side: there’s a self no one can unmake.🔥🌱🪽

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Jules's avatar

It’s 1.30am when reading this and im lost for words to write as all I want to do is jump out of bed and cheer you both on , so moving , so empowering, at the same time my heart is pumping with love for you both ,

The words the hero’s journey is going over and over in my mind .

Love to to you both 💞

With big hugs 🤗

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Dea Devidas's avatar

Feeling your presence across time zones, and sending that love right back, steady and warm. 💞🕰️🤗

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Annah on Planet Earth's avatar

Haha 🥰👍😅

I was waiting for this headline - Yes you are good !!!

I’m FULL. I’m ALIVE. I’m the whole fucking feast.”

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Dea Devidas's avatar

Haha yesss… nothing like a soul meal served hot 🔥 You are the feast, fully. And thank you for resonating 🌀

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Tat-Tvam Asi's avatar

Yes

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jen ly's avatar

Wow. I so needed this. Thank you for putting into words what I know to be true

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Dea Devidas's avatar

That knowing was already humming in you, the words just lit the path back to it. Honored to echo what you already hold. 🌙✨

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Peyton Johnson's avatar

Naked and unashamed as we are called to be…..full,alive,understandable . True Grace of walking in the garden in the cool of the evening.

On the floor holding my balls works too….

Peace,

Peyton

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Dea Devidas's avatar

Now that’s Genesis rewilded: sacred and cheeky, bare and bold. Walking grace, grounded guts. Felt this in the garden and the groin. Peace received, Peyton 🌿🔥

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Sean's avatar

What a view🫣👋🏽

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Dea Devidas's avatar

Cosmic front row seat 👀🌌😉

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The Sacred Holding Space's avatar

As someone with ADHD, this kept my attention the whole way through.

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Dea Devidas's avatar

That means a lot, truly. Holding your attention like that feels like a real meeting of minds. Thank you for riding it all the way with me 🧡🌀

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Kathleen Sawyer's avatar

Amazing article!!!

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Dea Devidas's avatar

So glad it hit home, thanks for feeling it with such fire! 🔥✨

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Yolanda D.'s avatar

LOVE THESE BOOKS!! ♥️♥️♥️

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Dea Devidas's avatar

So grateful they landed in your hands and in that big, bright heart of yours. Thank you for feeling them like that. 💛💛💛

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Dea Devidas's avatar

So grateful they landed in your hands and in that big, bright heart of yours. Thank you for feeling them like that. 💛💛💛

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Raine Sillito's avatar

Huh, this really made me think!

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Dea Devidas's avatar

That’s the best kind of magic, when words crack something open. Thanks for letting it land 🌟🌀

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Emma G's avatar

I love this. I had to save it because there was too much to take in in one go. But it really resonated with me. I am at a stage in life where I feel I am reading it looking back at a description of my younger self, but it took 50 years to start to really connect to myself and stop giving/showing/performing the version of myself I felt I was allowed to be. Thank you for a great Saturday morning read!

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Dea Devidas's avatar

Ahh yes… the moment you read your past with present eyes… that’s soul integration. What a tender and powerful reckoning. Your younger self is exhaling through you now… no more performing, just presence. Grateful you let these words sit beside you in that Saturday morning stillness and even more for the quiet revolution you named. Your journey speaks volumes, and I’m honored it echoed here. 🌅💫

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Trish Keene's avatar

How do I become a paid subscriber? I can’t do it from inside SubStack.

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Dea Devidas's avatar

Ahh thank you for wanting to! 💛 Sometimes Substack can be a bit fussy — try going directly to the site (not the app) here: https://sagesass.substack.com/subscribe. If it still gives you trouble, just let me know and we’ll figure it out together. So glad you’re here! 🫶✨

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Trish Keene's avatar

It is saying I am subscribed and there is no “upgrade”or change subscription status available. How can I get around to being a paid subscriber? Maybe unsubscribe and try it that way?

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Dea Devidas's avatar

Ah I feel the loop you're in, tech glitches always seem to pick the most meaningful moments to show up, right? Try unsubscribing and then rejoining fresh, like a little digital rebirth. If that still doesn’t open the portal, just whisper and I’ll help sort it from this end. I’ve got you. 💛💻🔑

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Guru Cornflake's avatar

OMG I am loving this… I have been there… got the t shirt… and now my soul and my pussy are learning with your help to speak the same language… I have waited a long time to find woman who I can relate to for there truth .. beautiful Dea.. thank you🙏🔥

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Dea Devidas's avatar

Ahhh yes, soul and pussy in sync is a whole new level of fluency 🔥 So honored to walk beside you in this remembering. Thank you for feeling it with your whole being 💫🧡 Here's to more wild, holy conversations between all our sacred parts 🪇

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