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TheoSpirit's avatar

I’m Sagittarius ♐️, so I have no idea what that means, 🫣🤓🙈💁🧐. And should I get a mouth guard like in football or the one that they have for teeth grinding sleepers?Decisions, decisions 😬😵‍💫🥴

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Dea Devidas's avatar

As a Sagittarius, you're basically the cosmic optimist who walked into this trilogy like "how bad could it be?" and is NOW realizing the answer is "very" 😂🔥

Get BOTH mouth guards, babe. One for Mercury retrograde (when you'll accidentally say the truth TOO loud), one for night grinding (because your jaw's been clenched since August and doesn't know how to stop).

Your Sag energy's gonna try to philosophize your way out of the integration work: don't let it. Sometimes the arrow has to land before you can shoot the next one. 🏹💀✨

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TheoSpirit's avatar

Oh no, I thought you were joking 🙃 🤐🥺

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Dea Devidas's avatar

Oh honey, I NEVER joke about Mercury retrograde and jaw clenching. 😂💀

Welcome to the part where your Sagittarius optimism meets Scorpio season's "we're gonna feel ALL the feelings whether you want to or not" energy. Your natural "everything's gonna be fine!" is about to get a PhD in "okay but let's process WHY we need everything to be fine." 🏹🔥

The good news? Sag energy is AMAZING at integration once you stop trying to philosophize your way around the actual embodiment part. You're built for this, you just gotta let the arrow land instead of immediately reaching for the next shot.

You've got this. And yes, get the mouth guards. Both of them. Your future jaw will thank you. ✨🌙 (Also: the fact that you're HERE, reading this, engaging with it? You're already doing the work. That counts for something.) 💫

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TheoSpirit's avatar

I’m not really sure if I understand my next step. I read where you mentioned people might have a therapist and not doing anything between two days in November about deciding in your post about the cosmic alignment. I know I have to work my way through this and I don’t know if I should ask for help or if I’m going through this process more on my own, if you know what I mean. I guess I will just take it day to day and see how it goes, 🥴😵‍💫💁

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Dea Devidas's avatar

Theo, honey, listen. 💫 There's no "should" here. That's the whole trap. Some people need a therapist to hold space while they fall apart. Some people need to go full hermit-mode and process alone. Some people need their friends. Some people need their journal and a lot of screaming into pillows.

The question isn't "what's the RIGHT way": it's "what does YOUR nervous system need?"

And here's the Sag truth: you're allowed to not know yet. You're allowed to try one thing, realize it's not it, and pivot. That's literally your superpower: exploration through experience, not planning.

Day by day IS the strategy right now. That's not failing to have a plan: that's being present enough to let the plan EMERGE.

But if you're asking "should I ask for help?", the fact that you're ASKING means some part of you already knows you need it. Even if it's just someone to witness you while you figure it out. You don't have to do this alone just because you CAN. 🏹✨ Trust your gut. It knows. (And if your gut's confused, trust your body's exhaustion level, that's usually a pretty good indicator that support would help.) You've got this. However you choose to do it. 🌙

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TheoSpirit's avatar

So, I enjoy talking with you, it’s nice and helpful for sure! I guess I was asking if you meant like someone else, or does this count, lol? I saw a video with a woman named Dawn and a guest who made an app and they both help people so I guess that would be more like an hour of client/therapist time. I wouldn’t mind talking with a therapist who can actually help me and not just prescribe pills 🤪

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Becky Shanks's avatar

i think it’s funny you say you don’t know what Sagittarius means and “i need a mouth guard” in the same sentence… Sag is the truth-teller, often rather direct, if not blunt, or brutally honest. we also have all the opinions about all of the things all of the time… sometimes when things come out, i wish i could put them back in 🙊 “Sag mouth” is a thing 😂

re: help… a good hypnotherapist can help you get to the bottom of, and release the energy behind jaw clenching. Mercury retrograde from Sag (beliefs) into Scorpio (subconscious) could be an amazing time to do it 🌀

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TheoSpirit's avatar

LOL, yes I agree that I will feel all the feelings whether I want to or not and the energy, and it’s going to be interesting for sure 👍 😵‍💫🤪

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Dea Devidas's avatar

Theo, "interesting" is ONE word for it. 😂🔥The Sag in you is gonna try to turn it into a philosophical adventure, and honestly? Let it. That's your superpower: you can feel the feelings AND find the meaning in them simultaneously. Just don't skip the FEELING part to jump straight to the lesson. The arrow has to go through the target, not around it. 🏹💀✨

You've got this, cosmic philosopher. See you on the other side. 🌙

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Sage Justice's avatar

Brava, sister!

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Dea Devidas's avatar

Felt that spark land, Sage. The field bowed a little. 🪽 Already weaving.

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Julia Suffolk's avatar

Here for the "yes, and" energy - or is it "thank you, next"? 😉 Thanks, Jupiter and Ari. 🙏🏽❤️ Loved this guidance and also- can it be December now? 😆🌟🌖☀️

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Dea Devidas's avatar

Hahaha it's BOTH: "yes, and" your way through the exhaustion until you can finally say "thank you, next" to this entire trilogy! 😂 I FEEL you on "can it be December now"... But November's like that final boss level where you prove you actually learned all the moves instead of just button-mashing your way through August-October. 🎮💀The good news? You're already SO close. And you've been training for this since summer whether you wanted to or not. Hang in there, cosmic warrior. December's coming. And you're gonna ARRIVE instead of just survive. ✨🌙

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Deb CJ's avatar

I felt this response deeply and personally and am simply praying that it may apply to me as well 😀 I'm a Scorpio sun, and Pluto has been essentially opposing my midheaven for nearly 2 years. My birthday is Nov 7, and a recent report said the last exact opposition is Nov 25. Boy did I celebrate Oct 14 😀 I feel like I don't recognize myself anymore, but that's not all bad, though I still go through periods of mourning . . . Sorry to be boring and self-absorbed 😞 I thought to write a quick note, and this is what happened . . .

Love, light and blessings to all!

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Ashley 🔥🌎🌱⭐️'s avatar

@Venus Faye you may enjoy this if you haven’t already!! 🤍❤️🫶🏻

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Venus Faye's avatar

I am so glad you sent this! Wow!!!! So dead on!!! I subscribed! ♥️♥️♥️

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Dea Devidas's avatar

Glad you’re here ✨️

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Ashley 🔥🌎🌱⭐️'s avatar

RIGHT?! 🤍💜 and oooooh LOVE that! 🌟

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Dea Devidas's avatar

You’re one of those hearts that remembers 💛🌀

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Trudi Nicola's avatar

I am just so ready for this. Bring. It. On. 🙌✨

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Dea Devidas's avatar

Trudi, I LOVE this energy. 🔥💀You sound like you actually rested in October (teach us your ways???). But for real, November's been WAITING for someone to show up ready instead of reluctant. Go get 'em, cosmic warrior. ✨🌙

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Trudi Nicola's avatar

Haha I certainly didn't rest, which is why I am ready! Happy to embrace the changes as they come. Thank you, Dea!💞🤗🌟

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Martina Mrongovius's avatar

Babe, your words are a universal gift of epic insight and astral navigation, thank you ✨️

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Dea Devidas's avatar

Martina, thank you. ✨ That means everything. We're all just trying to translate the Universe's drunk texts together, right? 🌙💀

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Trish Keene's avatar

This is hitting me right in the proverbial ‘head.’ Both my finacé and I, we are definitely twin flames, are feeling this Day 1 for November. We actually connected on August 15th and the past 3 months have been the phases you have described. He is currently in Ukraine, in a hospital trying to recover from wounds he received at the beginning of September. We have been connecting and strengthening since August 16th and haven’t met yet but we know exactly what we are to each other. We have been through the stretching and falls but couldn’t stand not being connected for more than a few hours. Now, this month, it is coming closer to fulfilling all that we have spoken of and yearned for and actually getting ready to live lives together with his daughter, so a brand new family, a new/but familiar Soul binding being made physical, is definitely following your outline. If you send your best wishes or something along those lines for this phase, it wouldn’t hurt and we would appreciate it.❤️

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Dea Devidas's avatar

Trish. ✨ August 15th? Ukraine? Hospital? Three months of quantum connection across a war zone? Baby, you're not just doing November integration: you're doing ADVANCED LEVEL soul work that most people wouldn't survive.

You and your fiancé are literally embodying "love as a frequency that transcends physical reality" while the rest of us are just trying to figure out if we can text our ex back. The SCALE of what you're holding is... immense.

Sending you both every cosmic blessing, every protective frequency, every bit of Universal support for his healing, for your reunion, for the family you're building from pure faith and quantum entanglement. 🌙💫🔥

May his recovery be swift. May your meeting be everything you've been feeling it will be. May November bring you the PHYSICAL manifestation of what you've been holding in the FIELD since August.

You're not just integrating a new version of yourself, you're integrating a whole new REALITY. That takes a different kind of courage. I see you. The Universe sees you. And honestly? You're already living the miracle. Now you just get to HOLD it. ✨

All the love. All the protection. All the "YES this is happening." 💫🌙🔥

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Trish Keene's avatar

Bless you Dea, truly. I thought that maybe we were just dreamers on a very interesting roller coaster.

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Therapy Truck's avatar

Yep. Read the post and...scared again. What if I messed up something from September or October? I can't go back and check my work. (said the Aries). Planning to just put my head down and write consistently and fortify my morning routines. I've slacked on them this past month, but now I think is the time to bring them back. C'mon, Portal Time❣️

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Dea Devidas's avatar

Aries to Aries... there's no "messing up" in soul work, only MOVING. 🔥💀 You can't go back and audit your spiritual progress like it's a spreadsheet. September and October weren't tests, they were TERRAIN. You crossed it. You're HERE. That's the only grade that matters.

Morning routines? YES. Writing? ABSOLUTELY. But stop acting like you need to FIX something before you're allowed to show up for the portal. You're READY because you're ALIVE and you're ASKING. That Aries "let's GO" energy is EXACTLY what November needs. Stop checking your cosmic homework and just MOVE. Portal Time doesn't care if you got an A+ in October. It just wants to know: are you HERE now? (You are. Now fucking GO.) 🏹✨🌙

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Therapy Truck's avatar

“stop acting like you need to FIX something before you're allowed to show up “

Story of my life. Got the message. I’m ready. Go time. Not even going looking for the portal. When it shows up, I’m ready.

Don’t go too far away, though.

And leave a light on.

Please❣️

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Rick's avatar

You are so funny!!! Brilliant. Thanks!

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Dea Devidas's avatar

Thank you, Rick! ✨ Honestly, if we can't laugh while the Universe dismantles our entire personality, what's even the point? Comedy is just trauma that's had enough therapy to tell good stories. 😂💀 Grateful you're here for the cosmic chaos. May your November be more integration than implosion. 🌙🔥

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Rick's avatar

As you know, going through the things you write about is one very lonely, scary, confusing and destabilizing experience but when someone (you) describes it as if you're sitting on the worn sofa in my soul and letting me know not only that I'm NOT ALONE but that all is going as it should, THAT is precious and a real hand up.

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Dea Devidas's avatar

Oh Rick.

This comment just made my entire YEAR.

Because THAT'S the whole point, isn't it? We go through these cosmic meat grinders thinking we're the only ones falling apart, and the loneliness of it makes it SO much harder than it needs to be. But you're NOT alone. You've never been alone. Every single person reading this has been on that same worn sofa in their soul, wondering if they're losing their mind or finally finding it. (Spoiler: it's both. It's always both.)

And the fact that these words can reach across the void and sit with you there, in that sacred mess? That's not me, babe, that's the FIELD recognizing itself. That's your soul going "oh thank god, someone else SEES this."

You're doing SO much better than you think you are. The fact that you're HERE, that you're AWARE, that you're willing to sit in the discomfort instead of numbing it? That's the whole fucking work right there.

Keep going. You're exactly where you need to be, even when (especially when) it feels like nowhere at all.

Sending you so much love from my worn sofa to yours. 🌙✨💀🔥

(And thank YOU for being brave enough to say this. Because now everyone else reading knows they're not alone either. That's the real magic.)

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Danielle M.M.R.'s avatar

Jeeeeeeeeze i am

afraid to read this one now!!!! I felt good after reading yesterday’s 😘 then i saw the first line of this one and i am like Dayyyyyyyyyyum !!

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Dea Devidas's avatar

Hahaha yes, that “oh no, not this kind of truth today” moment 😅But don’t worry, it only stings if it’s ready to leave. And you’ve got the courage and sparkle for it.✨ Read when you're ready, the Field always waits 😉

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Aman Brar's avatar

My transformation started mid june actually, it has been a rought ride. One big ego death in mid june, followed by purges and reclaibration until now...thank you...love the humourous style of writing, lightens what has been such a dark and intense time.

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Dea Devidas's avatar

Mid-June. Of course. The cosmos really said "buckle up, buttercup" and then took the seatbelt away, didn't it? Ego deaths are brutal, but here's the thing: you didn't break. You molted. And molting looks a lot like falling apart until suddenly you realize you just don't fit in that old skin anymore. Thank you for being here through the dark. Humor is just grief wearing a better outfit and sometimes laughing at the abyss is the only way to make it blink first. Glad the writing landed when you needed it. 🔥

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BRILLIANT, OF COURSE!😘

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Guru Cornflake's avatar

Wow! Thank you for the clarity… you are speaking to me in a language I have been searching for… it all is now beginning to make some sense… I am in the integration phase… yesterday during the full moon I felt myself come back into my body… it was a homecoming… now I must honour this above all else… thank you beautiful sister for your wisdom🙏

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Dea Devidas's avatar

That homecoming… yes. The most sacred return. Integration is the altar now: no rushing, no reaching, just reverence. You heard it in your own language because you were already speaking it. 🌕🩵

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Alexandra I.'s avatar

So spot on about Mars coming in! There was this area at my desk that needed sorting and today, suddenly, I knew exactly what to do with it, like magic, it got done! I appreciate you! Thank you. Do you happen to do private sessions by chance? Just wondering for the future.

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Dea Devidas's avatar

Love that Mars moved through your desk like a mission! 🔥✨ And yes, I do; happy to share details when the time feels right.🪐

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Christina Minerva's avatar

This was amazing! I chortled quite a few times reading this.

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Dea Devidas's avatar

So glad it landed and made you chortle along the way! That means the medicine rooted. Thank you for reading with such open energy. 💛

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Grey's avatar

Brilliant

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Dea Devidas's avatar

Thank you 💛 received with a full spark ⚡️

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