SAGE & SASS

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You're Not Maintaining Love: You're Feeding a Ghost

And Here's Why Your Body Already Knows It's Time to Stop Because Love Without Boundaries Isn’t Love: It’s an Energy Leak Through the Wound of Your Trying

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Dea Devidas
Oct 27, 2025
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Love Without Boundaries Isn’t Love: It’s an Energy Leak Through the Wound of Your Trying

Here’s what nobody tells you about things born from love: they have an expiration date.

Not because the love wasn’t real, it was. Not because you failed: you didn’t. But because love creates forms, and forms are temporal. Like milk. Like trends. Like that houseplant you swore you’d keep alive this time. Everything born has a life cycle, and your job isn’t to perform CPR on something that’s already composted. Your job is to know when the form has outgrown its holiness, when what was once sacred has completed its divine assignment and is now just... taking up space on your energetic credit card.

This week’s energy? A portal for the royal cut. The kind that doesn’t cry-post on Instagram or send a 38-paragraph text at 3am explaining your boundaries. The sovereign kind: where clarity becomes the blade that frees you from maintaining what’s already a hologram. Let’s fucking go.

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