When You Stop Asking How (And Reality Finally Gets the Hint)

Your silence is foreplay with reality.

Every question you don’t ask becomes space for the universe to slide into. Your nervous system knows this: knows that the exhale before action is where doors unlock themselves, where life stops being something you chase and becomes something that recognizes you across a crowded room.

You know that thing where you’re lying in bed at 2am googling “how to manifest a better life” while eating cereal directly from the box and your cortisol is throwing a rave? That’s you trying to negotiate with existence like it’s a customer service line. Meanwhile, reality is literally just waiting for you to hang up the phone and notice it’s been standing in your kitchen this whole time, offering you everything you’ve been searching for online.

Here’s what your body already knows: the moment you stop asking “how,” doors start opening like they’ve been waiting for your permission to exist.

Not because you manifested them with a vision board and 38 affirmations. But because you finally stopped collapsing ever…