SAGE & SASS

SAGE & SASS

The Love Codes Were Hacked (And You've Been Fucking the Virus)

How 5,000 years of programming turned your heart into malware, why "soulmate suffering" is a scam, and the quantum deprogramming ritual that'll make you dangerously ungovernable

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Dea Devidas
Nov 08, 2025
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Ok, we talked how your erotic energy has been functioning as a quantum antenna, and how you’ve been projecting it onto people who can’t hold the full voltage of what you actually are. That was about YOUR personal rewiring. Your individual reclamation. Now, we’re going deeper.

The Scene You Know Too Well (Now With More Existential Dread)

You’re sitting in a circle of women: maybe it’s a workshop, maybe it’s Thursday night wine with your girls, maybe it’s one of those “conscious community gatherings” where everyone’s supposed to be healed but nobody actually is, and someone asks: “What’s your relationship pattern?” And one by one, they start sharing: “I’m attracted to unavailable men.” “I keep choosing partners who need fixing.” “I sabotage when it gets too good.” “I can’t orgasm unless I’m performing.” “I give everything and get nothing back.” “I know he’s wrong for me but I can’t leave.”

Different women. Different men. Different details. Same. Fucking. Story. And you’re sitting there ha…

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