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RG she/her's avatar

Perfectly timed as always 💫

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Dea Devidas's avatar

The Field has a calendar we can't see. 🔥✨

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last week i found one of the last letters my grandma wrote me from the hospital. I loved my grandma so much, but the letter is a lot about how (religious) she was taught to behave and her expectation on how i would find love. There is a lot of people pleasing and fawning in there. I love her handwriting and drawing and see what she wrote from the good intention she meant it from, but parting feels definitely weird. Can we have 2 anchor points in an object? The one from back then but also a now version?

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Dea Devidas's avatar

Your grandmother's handwriting, her drawing, her love... and also her conditioning wrapped in good intentions. Same letter, two frequencies. 🔥Yes. Objects can hold multiple anchor points. The one from when you received it. The one from who you are now reading it. Your nervous system can touch both without having to choose.Here's the thing. You can love her handwriting and release her expectations. You can honor her intention and decline the inheritance of fawning she didn't know she was passing down. The letter can stay or go. But you don't have to carry her people-pleasing in your bones just because she wrote it with love.She gave you what she had. You get to keep what fits. ✨

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Des's avatar

Thank you!! That gives me peace!

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Dea Devidas's avatar

That's what the body sounds like when it finally exhales. 💛✨

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Neural Foundry's avatar

This cuts deep. The line about objects holding the frequency of who you were when you recieved them is exactly right. I've sat with boxes of old stuff where each item triggered a different version of past me, and it's exhausting maintaining all those anchor points. What caught my attention is the idea that keeping something out of guilt isn't honoring anyone, it's just running an emotional debt cycle. The protocol for actually checking in with the body before deciding feels so much more grounded than the usual "does it spark joy" approach.

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Dea Devidas's avatar

Exhausting maintaining all those anchor points. Yes. 🔥 Your nervous system runs background software for every version still stored in those boxes. No wonder there's no bandwidth left for who you're becoming.Guilt dressed as honoring is still just debt. The body knows the difference even when the mind writes beautiful justifications.Spark joy was a good start. But the body vote cuts deeper. Joy can be performed. Contraction can't. ✨

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Tania Tyler 🌿's avatar

This is the hard one 😉

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Dea Devidas's avatar

Yesss… hardest on actually…

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Blessed Warrior Reina's avatar

Thank U Queen👑👑 Thank U for BEing the Messenger I needed to hear in this moment. I physically purge thru all belongings, material items at least once per year. Recently my Soul has been calling on me to lighten my load & I've been draggin ass on this job even tho I know it's vital. I'm honestly not even sure as to Why I've been avoiding it, cuz I know full well I always breathe easier once it's done. I guess I needed the reminder to give myself permission to release my grip~ U can't receive new opportunities or Blessings when your hands are full of yesterday's "stuffs."

Mad Love & Blessings for U & Yours Beautiful🥰🥰👑👑❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥☯️☯️🧿🧿👁️

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