SAGE & SASS

SAGE & SASS

The Art of French-Kissing Your Inner Beast

A Guide to Primal Power for People Who've Been Politely Strangling Their Instincts Since Kindergarten

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Dea Devidas
Feb 07, 2025
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There’s a moment when you look into the eyes of your inner beast, and you can’t tell if you’re about to kiss or fight. That’s the moment. That’s where our story begins... not with muscles flexing in some willpower gym, but with the delicate dance between your regulated awareness and your wildest nervous system impulses.

Your body has been holding this tension since before you had words for it. The part of you that knows how to rest in safety and the part that knows how to bare teeth when necessary... they’ve been negotiating territory in your tissue for years, waiting for you to finally broker the peace.

Picture this: a woman and a lion, locked in what might be combat or communion. And she’s wearing what? Oh, just a casual infinity symbol as a hat, because nothing says “I’ve got my nervous system sorted” quite like wearing the universe’s favorite number on your head.

That figure-eight crown isn’t just a fashion statement. It’s the visual representation of two systems working together: your ventral vagal (safe and social) and your sympathetic (activated and powerful). It’s the solar path, the brain hemispheres doing the tango, and the ultimate symbol of “I can be both soft AND fierce, thanks for asking.”

Traditional wisdom would have you believe it’s all about dominance... civilized over wild, pumpkin spice lattes over primal screams. But we’re about to dig deeper than that. Like, “oops, we just found the actual mechanism” deeper.

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Beyond the Battle: A Love Story with Your Limbic System

Here’s what nobody tells you about real strength: if you’re trying to muscle your way through life like it’s a willpower arm-wrestling match, you’re missing the point entirely. True power is more like a tango with your primal responses... sometimes you lead, sometimes you follow, and sometimes you both just stand there wondering who’s going to make the next move.

Your fascia holds the choreography for this dance. Every fiber knows when to yield and when to stand firm. Your body has been practicing this rhythm since before your conscious mind learned to interfere with it.

Picture two cats meeting in an alley. They lock eyes, and there’s this electric moment where you can’t tell if they’re about to start the most epic fight of all nine lives or begin grooming each other like long-lost siblings. That’s the state we’re after. That’s the dance. That’s the moment where power and trust do their sacred tango.

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