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Love Alchemist Academy: How to Hack Your Heart's Operating System

(How to detox your relational patterns, divorce your trauma bonds, and become a walking invitation to actual connection)

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Dea Devidas
Jun 19, 2025
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Love Isn’t What You Think It Is 💣

Let’s get one thing straight from the biological gate, darling: Love is NOT an emotion.

I know, I know, Hallmark just filed for bankruptcy and Nicholas Sparks is having an existential crisis in a beach house somewhere. But here’s the tea that’s about to spill all over your romantic delusions: love is your natural state, your nervous system’s factory settings, the baseline frequency of your body that you keep forgetting because you’re too busy trying to connect to other people’s hotspots.

Love is what your nervous system does when it’s not defending. It’s the state your body returns to when threat dissolves. Your heart’s electromagnetic field, when coherent, broadcasts a frequency that other nervous systems recognize as safety. This is measurable. This is biology. This is what poets have been trying to describe with flowers and metaphors for centuries.

It’s that expansive, peaceful feeling you get when you’re floating in the ocean with zero drama, zero bi…

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