Holy Shit Dea, I feel so deeply seen and understood by this explanation of DARVO. I had literally zero idea this was a thing, but it was COMPLETELY my experience of a year long relationship that I finally extracted myself from a few weeks ago. Thank you. Purchasing your book now. Deep bow of reverence and gratitude to be able to understand why this is a thing and to hopefully gain more understanding of why these are the men I seem to end up with. Every fucking time. ๐๐๐
Oh my, I'm so glad you found the DARVO chapter. That one... yeah. That one hits different when you've lived it, right? Your body reads it and goes "WAIT, THIS HAS A NAME?!"
Welcome to the most frustrating relief of your life. The thing that made you feel insane for years has a three-page Wikipedia entry and a clinical definition. Cool. Cool cool cool. ๐
And a few weeks ago?? Look at you. Your gut got you out before your brain even had the vocabulary. That's not small. Give that gut some credit. Maybe some dinner. She's been WORKING.
The "every fucking time" part... oh honey. Chapter 6. The fractal chapter. That's where it clicks. Where you go from "why do I keep attracting this" to "oh... OH." I won't spoil it but... your nervous system has a type and it's not what you think it is. ๐ฅ
Thank you for the bow. Received, felt, and sent right back to you. I'm really glad you're here. And I'm really glad you're OUT. ๐๐๐ฉท
Holy Shit Dea, I feel so deeply seen and understood by this explanation of DARVO. I had literally zero idea this was a thing, but it was COMPLETELY my experience of a year long relationship that I finally extracted myself from a few weeks ago. Thank you. Purchasing your book now. Deep bow of reverence and gratitude to be able to understand why this is a thing and to hopefully gain more understanding of why these are the men I seem to end up with. Every fucking time. ๐๐๐
Oh my, I'm so glad you found the DARVO chapter. That one... yeah. That one hits different when you've lived it, right? Your body reads it and goes "WAIT, THIS HAS A NAME?!"
Welcome to the most frustrating relief of your life. The thing that made you feel insane for years has a three-page Wikipedia entry and a clinical definition. Cool. Cool cool cool. ๐
And a few weeks ago?? Look at you. Your gut got you out before your brain even had the vocabulary. That's not small. Give that gut some credit. Maybe some dinner. She's been WORKING.
The "every fucking time" part... oh honey. Chapter 6. The fractal chapter. That's where it clicks. Where you go from "why do I keep attracting this" to "oh... OH." I won't spoil it but... your nervous system has a type and it's not what you think it is. ๐ฅ
Thank you for the bow. Received, felt, and sent right back to you. I'm really glad you're here. And I'm really glad you're OUT. ๐๐๐ฉท